Quitting my government job was the best decision of my life

Why Quitting my Engineering Career was the Best Decision

Quitting My engineering Career was the Best DecisionMany people have been asking why I gave up my engineering career in the government.  It took me over six years of hustling to work my way up to the dream engineering projects, these dream projects was a secret goal of mine since graduating from engineering.  My government position also had room for career progression, personal growth, and travelling opportunities.  It also paid well with tons of benefits, great pension and perks.   So why did I leave?  Here’s a brief history of my career to explain why.

Jumping into Engineering

Like most kids in high school, I struggled to figure out what I wanted to do in life.  I tried to take a wide variety of classes to figure that out, e.g. law, psychology, physics, math.  I even volunteered for an entire year at a local hospital to see if I could see myself as a doctor.  Nothing interested me.  In fact, I was getting very, very bored with school.  The only thing that I liked was physical education and physics.  Physics was actually my worst mark out of the three sciences in high school.  What fascinated me about physics was the ability to visualize and solve problems in the natural world around me.  A month before graduating, I had a heart to heart discussion with my physics teacher about loving physics but not wanting to be a physics teacher (no offense to my teacher).  He told me about engineering.  So I immediately jumped onto that idea, shadowed a female environmental engineer (who also worked for the government) and decided to major in environmental engineering.  It took two weeks to decide what to do, redo my university application and enroll myself to summer school to make sure I had all the pre-requisites for engineering.  I was excited and RELIEVED to finally figure out what to do and never gave a second thought whether engineering was the right profession for my personality and skill set.

Demanding Consulting Career

I was very lucky because I had no problem finding a job straight out of university.  I even had a government job offered with a great salary, but I decided to go with engineering consulting to build my technical skills and “get my hands dirty”(i.e., engineering field work).  The first five years were fun, but demanding.  Sometimes I worked all-nighters (in the office) and I averaged 50-60+ hour work weeks.  Additionally, I moonlighted as a tutor and a model to pay for my student debt.  This amounted to at least 75 hours per week.  The work was tough, but an additional reason I stuck with the career was because of the awesome social and team environment.   Unfortunately, several years into the consulting life and hustling in 2 side jobs, I started to experience health problems that I contributed to the workload.

Government Career

I decided to leave consulting and join the government. For the next 7+ years, I focused primarily on project management for some really cool projects.  I loved the projects I worked on.  However, there were things that bugged me which indirectly showed up in my health.  I worked a lot and expected a lot from others, too.  The inefficiencies started to bother me so much that sometimes I tried doing things on my own time, and well into the night, to make projects more efficient.  I really, really tried but I was spending enormous amounts of energy and hardly making a dent.  Plus, I was investing in real estate, learning the ropes as a landlord/property manager and starting a family.  In the end, I realized that I was constantly filling an empty pit with work.

Reasons why quitting my engineer career was the best decision:

  • I gave birth to twins and I didn’t spend nearly as much time with them as my husband or nanny. I realized that I was working or travelling all the time and having  someone else take care of my kids.
  • More and more of my time was spent in meetings, teleconferences and travelling.  In order to prepare for these constant meetings I worked at night.  I was rarely ‘present’ with my kids nor with my husband and my career became my identity.
  • I lost interest in engineering. I’m not sure why, but I’m not really interested in the environmental engineering side anymore.  One of the main reasons that kept me going into the office was because I had already invested years for a very near term opportunity to move to the next level.
  • Pension, benefits, and perks were never a driving factor for me.  I went into government because they had the dream engineering projects, they had the funds for mega scale environmental engineering projects, but I started losing interest in my dream project.
  • My physical and mental health deteriorated due to the sedentary lifestyle and stress.
  • I realized that I have a way of constantly attracting responsibility, which comes with stress.  I started wondering what it would be like to readjust my work responsibilities (and stress levels) to pursue my own interests as an entrepreneur, become more efficient with time, and consolidating my energy to pursue my interests.  If I was going to be stressed out, why not stress out over my own desires and building my own businesses?
  • My real estate investments already grew enough to take care of my twins’ post secondary education needs, cover basic housing expenses and my retirement.   I was also getting tired of working for a pay cheque to only reinvest the majority of my income to investments.
  • I realized I had a strong entrepreneurial spirit.  I’ve been living a double life for the past 15 years with a keen interest in making extra income through investments or through self-employment while juggling a day time career.

I decided I needed a change.  I took a sabbatical to refresh, recharge, and focus on my family.  Once my twins started school full-time, I dove straight into my other interests and realized the government career wasn’t for me nor was environmental engineering.   It took eight months of constant self-awareness and reading before I had the courage to give up my lucrative engineering career in the government.

If I were to go back in time, I would still have done engineering, but with a minor in business.  As for jumping into the government, I don’t regret that decision at all, as I had the right intentions.  More importantly, in my government career I built up my real estate investments via diligent savings which enabled me to pursue full-time entrepreneurship at the age of 35.

I am likely going to join the workforce again in the near future but on my own terms, with self-employment, and when I am ready.

I hope this helps my readers who have aspirations to leave their careers to pursue their interests full time.


Now, back to you!

Do you still enjoy your government job and will you continue to do it until full retirement age?

If you are an engineer, do you still enjoy it? 

And don’t be shy, leave your comments below.  I’m here to empower, guide and encourage you to reach your financial nirvana.

Happy Investing,

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11 Comments

  • Joe

    Reply Reply May 17, 2015

    Thanks for sharing your journey. Engineering can be very demanding. It was a lot of fun when I was a junior engineer, but became much more tedious when I was more senior.
    I think you made the right decision to take the time off and really figure out your next step. Life is too short to be stressed out all the time. Good luck with your businesses!

  • Cana

    Reply Reply July 21, 2015

    You’ve always been so inspiring. This was a good read to remind myself do some self-reflections. I had a LOT of interest while I was studying engineering. It was very stressful, yet challenging and fun. It’s such a good question on whether to continue my government job until retirement. I have no idea. Until I do some serious thinking/planning, step it up, and take some action, I guess I’ll stick with it for now. It is very boring indeed. Thanks for sharing Tracy 🙂

    • Financial Nirvana Mama

      Reply Reply July 23, 2015

      Thanks so much Cana! I’m glad this article helped you to step back and think of life:)

  • Margarita Ibbott

    Reply Reply January 3, 2016

    I hate to disappoint you but once you become an entrepreneur you rarely go back to a corporate/government job. I know I left corporate jod 16 yeas ago (also at 35) and though I have toyed with the idea of going back, I love the freedom of being an independent contractor.

    Enjoy the entrepreneur’s life. From this post it sounds like you will succeed here as much as when you were an environmental engineer.

    • Hi Margarita,
      thanks for the inspiration and confidence booster. And great to hear that you left your corporate job at 35 and were happy with the decision. I’m definitely enjoying life as an independent contractor too.

  • OB

    Reply Reply March 21, 2016

    This was very inspiring to read. I’m currently still in my engineering job and have to admit that I share similar feelings to what you went through. Some days are better than others. When I honestly reflect on my interests and goals in life, my day job is far from what gives me fulfillment in life.

    Thankfully, I found real estate investing as well. I’m not yet at a point where it’s meeting all of our expenses, but it’s a start and a goal that I’m shooting for. For now, I’ll keep working my day job with a smile on my face and appreciate the current security I do have.

    • I’m glad I can help. And you are on the right track with being aware of the problem:) And awesome that you are into real estate. It is a great accelerator to help you get to where you want to be.
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  • Jennifer Dickie

    Reply Reply July 22, 2016

    Hey Financial Nirvana Mama !!

    Great blog !!
    i appreciate it.Its nice to read your blog.Everybody’s had a project, co-worker or boss who has caused them to think, “I’m going to quit!” But rarely do we follow through with the threat, and usually the job gets better or the problem gets fixed. But for some people, choosing to quit has been the best decision they ever made.

    Whether you’ll dive right into your new project or take up a new job while you’re looking to find what suits you, staying positive will help make your decision worth it. “Instead of thinking of all the things you’ll lose, like a regular salary, or valuable time with co-workers, focus on what you stand to gain. You’ll get a huge amount of experience on your career break, and develop a raft of new skills too

    Keep posting such article.
    Thanks for the comment.
    Have a nice day
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